Kim, I had not read your blog in a while - you kow kids, work, life but something happened a couple of weeks ago that made me think of you and your family. My nephew lost his "wife" (they could not get married due to insurance) during a bone marrow transplant try. It was a last ditch effort that just came a little too late. He had to sit beside her and watch her die just a couple of months before she turned 33. Afterwards because she had wanted to take a shower so badly, he and her mother bathed her body before it was sent to be cremated. She was the love and light of his life and other then his daughter she was his soul. He is now broken. She wanted him to have some of her ashes, but her mother forget, so he was left wanting. I told him to watch for signs from her and he has kept an open heart and mind and she has come to him and he has been freaked out :) The situations have reminded me about you and yours and I had to come and check up on you. I am so glad that you have met someone to help you go on! I hope that he is able to do the same in the years to come.
Jennifer... First I want to let you know how very sorry I am. 33...that's just so young it breaks my heart. Right now you are all in the worst heavy grieving ever..and although it will never go away it will subside somewhat, after a year. However..once that veil of grief lifts a little the signs will flow even more. Spirits have a hard time breaking thru that veil..they can, {my Vinny did} but when the hurting was a little less, that's when the signs would come non stop. My love and deepest sympathy to all of you <3 Kim
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Oh Kim, I think your Madison is just adorable! And I love the tunic top you made for her. God bless you and yours.
Hugs and Blessings,
Judy Elliott
Kim, I had not read your blog in a while - you kow kids, work, life but something happened a couple of weeks ago that made me think of you and your family. My nephew lost his "wife" (they could not get married due to insurance) during a bone marrow transplant try. It was a last ditch effort that just came a little too late. He had to sit beside her and watch her die just a couple of months before she turned 33. Afterwards because she had wanted to take a shower so badly, he and her mother bathed her body before it was sent to be cremated. She was the love and light of his life and other then his daughter she was his soul. He is now broken. She wanted him to have some of her ashes, but her mother forget, so he was left wanting. I told him to watch for signs from her and he has kept an open heart and mind and she has come to him and he has been freaked out :) The situations have reminded me about you and yours and I had to come and check up on you. I am so glad that you have met someone to help you go on! I hope that he is able to do the same in the years to come.
Jennifer...
First I want to let you know how very sorry I am. 33...that's just so young it breaks my heart.
Right now you are all in the worst heavy grieving ever..and although it will never go away it will subside somewhat, after a year.
However..once that veil of grief lifts a little the signs will flow even more.
Spirits have a hard time breaking thru that veil..they can, {my Vinny did} but when the hurting was a little less, that's when the signs would come non stop.
My love and deepest sympathy to all of you <3
Kim
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