We're Home!!!

I'll put up more tomorrow...I'm real tired, but happy we are back home again. :)

A Kody Update

He was admitted and put on morphine last night which really helped the pain and made him pretty loopy...which in itself was pretty amusing :)

As it turns out he had too much fluid in his ventricles so neurosurgery came in last night and tapped his shunt, (put a needle directly through the shunt in his head) and pulled out 7 cc's of fluid to give him some relief. Then they reset his shunt to let more fluid out.

Within 30 minutes he looked so much better,

They did admit him anyway, to keep an eye on it so, that's where we stand today. We were finally in a room and done with all the questions and so on at about two this morning. He's still sleeping and I'm working on coffee.

Thank you to everyone for the prayers.

Also, thank you for the kind messages...it really means a lot to me, not to be judged or hated and looked down on. I'm still trying to find that center line of being happy and not feeling guilty and being miserable because I think I should.

Have a beautiful day everyone. :)

Kody's in the hospital again, we've been here all day. They've been running all kinds of tests, its a shunt thing but also has a lot of back pain suddenly. Right now he's in ultrasound looking for cysts. He had a cat scan and shunt series but I don't know anything yet. Life here is never boring, is it?

My Mantra

"My husband died, I didn't" Although a huge part of me died with him that day, I am almost to the point where some days I can actually believe that my dreams for happiness in the future are still very much alive. Some days I believe it...other days I want to be right back in his arms again, no matter what and who I leave behind. I have somebody in my life now who gives me hope for the future, cherishes me and loves me unconditionally. He is kind, patient and wonderful. Everything a woman could possibly want in a man. However...I can't fully come to grips with this yet. Some days I do, other days I just can't. Thankfully, he has a lot of patience and some huge shoulders to cry on. He loves me and calls me beautiful, even though I am a hot mess. Please don't hate me for this. It feels good to spend some time smiling and laughing once in a while. It's not the same as I felt with My Vinny, but it's a damn close second best. :)

Bella

Karyelle, Chaz and Madison are off for a two week vacation to see Chaz's family and look who I get... Her name is Bella and she is their first baby. :) Let the spoiling begin!! :)

Mdison

Her Daddy is a reptile breeder and educator in the school system, so this picture of Madison was a given... Here she is with her Daddy, Chaz.... And the three as a new family... Chaz reminds me so much of Karl, it's crazy. :) Thanks for stopping by, have a beautiful day everyone!!

Kody's MRI

Yesterday he had his 6 month MRI and it looked great!!! However, in one month he is going in for a back MRI, due to the clumsiness and back pain he's had for this past month. Could be muscles, since school has been out he hasn't been working out like he used to. But, to be on the safe side, if it continues....we'll just have a look see in there. He has to get to an eye Dr as well, he's been having issues with one eye and unknown to me till yesterday, shunted kids are supposed to see an eye Dr every year. Who knew? Not me. :( Kody just came back from camp this Monday, as always, he had the best time. Sadly, he's going to be 17 this month so this year was his last year as a camper. But...if all goes well, he'll be going back for LIT. {Leadership in Training} which basically means...he'll be a counselor instead of a camper from here on end. Everything and everyone is doing OK. I don't know though if I'll ever get used to taking Kody for his MRI by myself...I keep looking for my man, and he's just not there. He did though, when I was outside having a coffee at the hospital yesterday, while Kody was in the MRI send me a red bird...it flew up right there next to me and even posed while I took out my phone and snapped a picture. It was amazing...I was thinking about him, started to look for something to wipe the tears...and just like that, I knew without a doubt he was there. I never walk alone....he's there, I just can't see him.